"We don't really do Valentine's Day," is a phrase I'll repeat a few times today, and my husband already has too. It might sound like a standard response, giving off a vibe of "we're not the romantic type," BUT it's just not our thing, and how we chose to celebrate, or lack thereof, today. It's not about lacking romance; we simply find today to be immensely overrated, and basically a Hallmark Holiday.
By no means am I knocking on those of you celebrating today. You do you, Boo! Buy the expensive flowers, grab the boxes of chocolates, book that dinner at the fancy restaurant... indulge and enjoy every moment. As for me, I'll take a rain check. Now, why don't we celebrate? Well, for starters, the price of flowers skyrockets just because it's Valentine's Day. We treat ourselves to chocolates or candies whenever we please, and our gift-giving happens spontaneously, not bound to a calendar with the pressure of "having to". Beyond that, if you dare venture out to a restaurant for dinner, brace yourself for a crowd. It's a zoo out there. Long waits, grumbling customers, the whole nine yards. Just people. Lots and lots of people. And if you manage to snag a table (hopefully, you made reservations days ago), you're often stuck with a limited menu: a few choices but the full menu will be unavailable. As for dessert? They'll probably feature a Strawberry Shortcake and maybe a Red Velvet Cake. Again, do not let me rain on your parade! Do not let me deter you from doing all the Valentine's fun you want to. If this day is your jam, go all out and savor every moment. But let me drop a small truth bomb: You can show the ones you care about some love and appreciation any damn day of the year! No need to wait for a holiday to spoil someone with flowers or treats. Gifts don't have to be reserved for special occasions; surprise someone just because. At the end of the day, and any other day for that matter, your loved ones should feel cherished, without needing a holiday to validate it.
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