I am so fed up with society as a whole assuming that women aren't sexual, that we don't get turned on easily, that we NEED romance and foreplay before sex. Women LOVE sex... not all, but on a whole, women are also sexual beings, just like males, as hard as that is to believe. Thinking of the dress code bullshit and how males are so easily turned on that shoulders have to be covered, actually got me thinking about how some not so typically sexual things (for lack of a better word), can turn people on.
For example, my husband peering over his sunglasses at me is so fucking sexy. He may look like a fool to some or a douche to others but he looks fucking gorgeous to me. My husband has a thing for cargo pants, the fit on a female body, does something to him. It's so odd to me that it's just assumed that in order to turn a female on, there has to be some bold romantic gesture or an hour of foreplay. That has to be something that was started by a male or a female that really wanted to put a man to work. Women are so known for reading erotica... women can be completely turned on by words on a page but men really think that we need a whole bathroom lit with candles and a rose petal bath (that we have to clean up when it's all said and done) to get horny? A lot of women that I know are actually horny all the time or at least could easily be turned on with a little effort of some kind. Maybe it isn't the woman's fault or the acts that aren't getting her turned on, maybe it's just the person attempting to do so?
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